It’s All About Undue Influence

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By 2018-06-01T21:08:36+00:00on June 2nd, 2018
Undue Influence, Child Abuse, Pedophilia, Jehovah's Witnesses|8 Comments

Why would someone not report allegations of child sexual abuse to the authorities or the police? Unfortunately, it’s all about undue influence*.

Child sexual abuse is a global societal problem, but did you know that many individuals and institutions use undue influence to manipulate and discourage victims or their care-givers from reporting these crimes to the proper authorities? Or, they delay reporting because they’re influenced to report abuse to clergymen first, who then consult with attorneys instead of civil authorities?

California is no exception to the widespread problem of undue influence, and I am no stranger to this problem. Most of my life was spent in a high-control group, subjected to what I’ve learned is undue influence.

I now realize that undue influence is at the root of how institutions handle child sexual abuse cases. I have personally experienced how natural love and common sense can be overwritten by high-control groups. This puts me in a good position to help answer the question, “Why would anyone intentionally fail to report an allegation of pedophilia?”

In addition, my life experiences help me see how anyone can become a member of a high-control group. This is why I am an advocate for practical and beneficial laws, which recognize the negative consequences of undue influence, and specifically, this is why Robert Atkinson, Barbara Anderson, my wife Karin and I started SCAARS.CA**: Stop Child Abuse: Advocates for Reform and Safety.

SCAARS is a metaphor for the healing process. Our scars define us. This is the principal challenge for those of us who have left manipulative, insular groups. Perhaps the most difficult thing we’ll have to address in our life outside these highly-controlling groups.

A significant goal for SCAARS is to promote the process of moving from victim-to-survivor-to-thriver, after a person has been victimized by child abuse. And now teamed with the Open Minds Foundation, we hope to achieve the following objectives:

  1. Changing laws in the State of California by introducing Fact Sheets, which correspond with statutes that need revision. Using California as a template, we hope to spark reform in other states and countries.
  2. Educating legislators about the effect of undue influence by clergymen and mandated reporters, who either fail to report, or defer to a parent organization for reporting purposes.
  3. Strengthening mandatory reporting requirements in California along with enforcing penalties for failure to report.
  4. Educating the public on how current mandatory reporting laws are insufficient and endanger children everywhere. Victims should not be harmed by predators and weak legislation.
  5. Creating a special edition of Barbara Anderson Uncensored with an Introduction to Undue Influence by Jon Atack. The target market will be legislators, attorneys and politicians around the world, and potential volunteers for SCAARS and ambassadors for Open Minds Foundation.

I also want to congratulate Romy Maple, Janja Lalich and Barbara Anderson for their contributions to the Elizabeth Vargas A&E Special on May 29. Raising awareness of negligent child abuse reporting policies will lead to changes in the law to better protect children.

You can access the special here. If your local cable provider subscribes to A&E, you can sign in online using your local access account and watch this episode.

Join us now, and help us change and create laws that better protect children from child sexual abuse!

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* One definition of undue influence: “Excessive psychological persuasion that causes another person to act or refrain from acting by overcoming the person’s free will, and results in inequity/lack of justice.”

** SCAARS.CA currently has a Facebook page, with plans for a corresponding website to be launched this summer.

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What do you think about this article? Do you agree? Have you read Barbara’s book? Do you have a story about unreported abuse due to undue influence that you’d like to share? We’d love to hear from you! 

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Roger Bentley is a passionate advocate for SCAARS, which is now collaborating with the Open Minds Foundation to better protect children, and is currently working to reform laws that will reduce the incidents of child sexual abuse in the state of California.

8 Comments

  1. Suzanne Gribble June 3, 2018 at 3:32 am - Reply

    Thank you for all you have done and for carrying this battle forward

    • Roger Bentley June 3, 2018 at 7:23 pm - Reply

      That is encouraging to hear you say that. Especially since it comes from a person who has and is helping others. Hopefully we will have the opportunity to visit this summer.

  2. Michael Paddock June 4, 2018 at 1:48 am - Reply

    This article made me think of one of my favorite quotes:
    “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” – Khalil Gibran

    Great information here. Thanks for all your hard work.

  3. Roger Bentley June 4, 2018 at 8:48 pm - Reply

    Thank you Michael for that quote. We are trying to build a coalition of people, that are free to follow their passion, help improve child abuse laws, and thrive while living their life. I am delighted to be meeting so many people who are happy to be a part of the solution.

    • Tricia June 5, 2018 at 10:17 pm - Reply

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      • Roger Bentley June 6, 2018 at 9:46 pm - Reply

        Hi Tricia. Thank you for commenting and the invitation to email you. The W5 special was very well done. It was the “human” element of your stories. Why were you there? What did you want to accomplish? How did you come into a situation of your families refusing to talk to you? Those question were answered well.

        One of the reasons I became so interested in your protest was that I know a person who traveled from California to New York. She is a very good person and one who will let me go at my own pace on my spiritual path. That is very much appreciated by me because of my past experience. Not only did she go to New York, she participated with courage, passion, and intelligence.

        Another reason I have been following your movement is the interaction with police officers. Your groups response to the officers has been very educational. On the other hand I am noticing a tactical response from JW.org.. I have my concerns of how things could turn out court. I look forward to having a conversation with you.

  4. Tricia June 5, 2018 at 10:16 pm - Reply

    Hello, you should also check out a recent W5 episode which did a one hour special investigation into Jehovah’s Witnesses and the child sex abuse problem It’s called W5: No Witnesses.

    Also, I was hoping the writer of this article would contact me at [email protected] in the hopes that we could have him create a blog out of this?

  5. David Gracey July 9, 2018 at 9:51 pm - Reply

    Thanks Roger for your article. I appreciate you speaking out and look forward to meeting and talking with you this summer. I firmly believe that the sinister and hypocritical influence of the watchtower was instrumental in my daughters tragic suicide in 2010. I blame myself for indoctrinating my family and buying into the lies of the watchtower for so many years despite lingering doubts. Of course it was how I was programmed too and finding fault is not helpful. Working to undue the harmful influence of the watchtower and other high control groups is something I am dedicated to as well.

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